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Unexpected Erection Sparks Communication in Intimate Relationships

5/19/2025

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Slate's "How to Do It" column dives into intriguing sexual dilemmas. One reader reveals her boyfriend's unexpected erections sparked by a particular song, hinting at a curious psychological response. Meanwhile, another woman stands firm, withholding intimacy until her boyfriend shaves his beard. The column underscores the vital role of open communication and compromise in navigating these intimate challenges.

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Story summary

Slate's "How to Do It" column dives into intriguing sexual dilemmas. One reader reveals her boyfriend's unexpected erections sparked by a particular song, hinting at a curious psychological response. Meanwhile, another woman stands firm, withholding intimacy until her boyfriend shaves his beard. The column underscores the vital role of open communication and compromise in navigating these intimate challenges.