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Hoda Kotb's Journey of Change: Insights from "Jump and Find Joy"
9/23/2025, 8:48:28 PM
Embracing New Beginnings
Hoda Kotb, the veteran television host and author, has recently released her memoir, "Jump and Find Joy: Embracing Change in Every Season of Life." The book reflects on her personal and professional transformations, including her departure from NBC's "Today" show after 26 years. Kotb's decision to leave was influenced by her desire to prioritize her family, particularly her daughters, Haley Joy, 8, and Hope Catherine, 6, as well as to pursue her new wellness venture, Joy 101.
Reflections on Career and Relationships
In her memoir, Kotb candidly discusses her past relationships, including her marriage to Burzis Kanga and her engagement to Joel Schiffman. She describes her marriage to Kanga as one that lacked depth, stating, “You don’t build a great romance on fine.” Kotb and Schiffman, who share two adopted daughters, ended their engagement in January 2022. Kotb emphasizes that their decision to part was rooted in love rather than anger, noting, “It came from a place of love, not anger, which makes a big difference.”
The Impact of Motherhood
Kotb's exit from "Today" has allowed her to cultivate a deeper connection with her daughters. She recalls a poignant moment when Haley discovered her mother's battle with breast cancer through the book. This revelation led to meaningful conversations, highlighting the importance of being present in her children's lives. Kotb reflects, “I wasn’t able to bear witness to my kids’ daily lives because of what I was doing.”
Official Statements & Responses
In interviews, Kotb has expressed her gratitude for her time at "Today," stating, “I loved it, but I didn't need it.” She acknowledges missing the show but feels fulfilled by her current endeavors. Kotb's new wellness platform, Joy 101, aims to inspire others to embrace change and pursue joy, offering resources like an app and virtual events.
Criticism & Opposition
While Kotb's journey has been largely positive, some critics question the timing of her departure from a high-profile role. They argue that leaving such a prominent position could be seen as a retreat from public life rather than a proactive step toward personal fulfillment.
Verbatim Quotes
- “I've spent my whole life waiting, and that's OK, because what I realize is at the end is where the good stuff is.” — Hoda Kotb
- “I don’t think I’ve ever really taken a deep dive into love,” — Hoda Kotb
- “‘Mom, what am I going to do when I get to the top of this tree?’ I smiled and said, ‘I don’t know. What are you going to do?’ She thought for a moment, then looked me right in the eye and said, ‘I guess I’ll find another tree.’ And there it was. There was no denying what I knew deep down inside. I was ready to find myself another tree.” — Hoda Kotb’s daughter, Hope
- “Our decision to part wasn’t one that we took lightly, but we knew it was the right one.” — Hoda Kotb
What's Next for Hoda Kotb
Looking ahead, Kotb is focused on expanding Joy 101 and continuing to foster her relationship with her daughters. She envisions her 60s as a time for new beginnings, stating, “I’m a beginner all over again.” As she embarks on this new chapter, Kotb encourages others to take risks and embrace the changes that life brings.
