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Reddit Debate: Can You Help Unwilling Friends Change?

10/29/2025

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Reddit user Thursdxy expressed frustration over a medically obese friend's lack of commitment to fitness advice after offering workout plans and support.
Thursdxy confronted him, saying he lacked self-control and accountability.
Redditors offered mixed responses, with some urging a supportive approach and others defending Thursdxy's efforts.
Ultimately, many agreed that you cannot help someone who is unwilling to change.

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Reddit user Thursdxy expressed frustration over a medically obese friend's lack of commitment to fitness advice after offering workout plans and support.
Thursdxy confronted him, saying he lacked self-control and accountability.
Redditors offered mixed responses, with some urging a supportive approach and others defending Thursdxy's efforts.
Ultimately, many agreed that you cannot help someone who is unwilling to change.