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Ancient Chinese Saying Highlights Stigma Against Divorced Women

12/8/2025

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A traditional saying from ancient China states, "it is better to marry a widow than a divorced woman," reflecting harsh moral standards toward women.
The phrase implies a man would prefer a widow over a divorced woman, suggesting the latter carries disgrace.
Historically, Chinese women had low status and were expected to follow Confucian principles, notably the Three Obedience and Four Virtues, which emphasized obedience to father, husband, and son.

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A traditional saying from ancient China states, "it is better to marry a widow than a divorced woman," reflecting harsh moral standards toward women.
The phrase implies a man would prefer a widow over a divorced woman, suggesting the latter carries disgrace.
Historically, Chinese women had low status and were expected to follow Confucian principles, notably the Three Obedience and Four Virtues, which emphasized obedience to father, husband, and son.