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Child Psychologist's Tips for Stress-Free Holiday Gifting

12/9/2025

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Dr. Erika, a child psychologist at Boston Children’s Hospital, offers advice for parents managing holiday expectations.
Dr. Erika notes children often enjoy wrapping paper more than costly gifts.
Dr. Erika recommends the four gift rule—something they want, need, wear, and read—to reduce conflict and limit spending.
Dr. Erika advises parents to consider a child’s maturity and safety before smartphones and to establish guidelines ahead of time to prevent risky purchases.

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Dr. Erika, a child psychologist at Boston Children’s Hospital, offers advice for parents managing holiday expectations.
Dr. Erika notes children often enjoy wrapping paper more than costly gifts.
Dr. Erika recommends the four gift rule—something they want, need, wear, and read—to reduce conflict and limit spending.
Dr. Erika advises parents to consider a child’s maturity and safety before smartphones and to establish guidelines ahead of time to prevent risky purchases.