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Young Chinese Embrace Self-Love Trend: 'Ai Ni Lao Ji'

1/17/2026

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Celine Wang, a 26-year-old office worker in Tianjin, treats herself to an extra cup of milk tea, signaling a trend of self-compassion among youth.
The phrase ai ni lao ji, meaning "love you, dear self," has gained popularity, especially on Douyin and Kuaishou.
The movement centers on personal wellness, with users sharing small indulgences and self-praise after overcoming challenges amid work and education.

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Story summary

Celine Wang, a 26-year-old office worker in Tianjin, treats herself to an extra cup of milk tea, signaling a trend of self-compassion among youth.
The phrase ai ni lao ji, meaning "love you, dear self," has gained popularity, especially on Douyin and Kuaishou.
The movement centers on personal wellness, with users sharing small indulgences and self-praise after overcoming challenges amid work and education.