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Millennial Moms Embrace 'Good Enough' Amid Pandemic Inequities

1/19/2026

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In Life After Ambition, Canadian writer Amil Niazi argues that millennial mothers face evolving standards, and the COVID-19 pandemic exposed systemic inequities in childcare and workplace support.
Niazi embraces a 'good enough' approach to motherhood, rejecting the pursuit of perfection.
This sentiment resonates with the 'bad mother' identity popularized by Ayelet Waldman, which encourages admitting shortcomings.
However, the consequences of this identity differ across socioeconomic lines, affecting women of color.

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Story summary

In Life After Ambition, Canadian writer Amil Niazi argues that millennial mothers face evolving standards, and the COVID-19 pandemic exposed systemic inequities in childcare and workplace support.
Niazi embraces a 'good enough' approach to motherhood, rejecting the pursuit of perfection.
This sentiment resonates with the 'bad mother' identity popularized by Ayelet Waldman, which encourages admitting shortcomings.
However, the consequences of this identity differ across socioeconomic lines, affecting women of color.