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Couple Disappointed by No Gifts Despite Charity Request
1/25/2026
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Story summary
- The couple who recently married for the second time expressed disappointment that guests gave no gifts or cards despite a no-gift request and a charity list.
- Miss Manners said many guests followed the couple’s instructions and offered reasons for not replying, such as not wanting to donate in another’s name or not writing cards.
- She urged the couple to let go of grievances and focus on their new life together.
