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Struggling with Hoarding: Family Dynamics and Boundaries

1/25/2026

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Summary

Story summary

A person seeks advice to manage family dynamics around a brother's hoarding disorder and a mother's request to help with online auctions.
They work two jobs, live nearby, and feel overwhelmed while worrying about the mother's safety.
They consider involving social services but hesitate due to potential conflict.
The guidance emphasizes setting boundaries and suggests writing clear instructions so the mother and brother can collaborate on the auctions independently.

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Story summary

A person seeks advice to manage family dynamics around a brother's hoarding disorder and a mother's request to help with online auctions.
They work two jobs, live nearby, and feel overwhelmed while worrying about the mother's safety.
They consider involving social services but hesitate due to potential conflict.
The guidance emphasizes setting boundaries and suggests writing clear instructions so the mother and brother can collaborate on the auctions independently.