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China's 'Ex-Partner Referrals' Trend Revolutionizes Modern Dating

2/10/2026

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The trend of 'ex-partner referrals' in China treats former lovers like job candidates and was sparked by a viral social media post requesting an internal referral for a boyfriend.
Users share profiles and feedback on exes to help others navigate modern dating, prompting a flood of comments pitching ex-partners as potential matches.
Some comments joke about promoting a current boyfriend's qualities, reflecting evolving dating dynamics among young people in China.

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Story summary

The trend of 'ex-partner referrals' in China treats former lovers like job candidates and was sparked by a viral social media post requesting an internal referral for a boyfriend.
Users share profiles and feedback on exes to help others navigate modern dating, prompting a flood of comments pitching ex-partners as potential matches.
Some comments joke about promoting a current boyfriend's qualities, reflecting evolving dating dynamics among young people in China.