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Miss Manners Navigates Affection in Non-Serious Friendships

2/14/2026

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Story summary

Miss Manners (the etiquette columnist) addresses a widow seeking advice on expressing affection to a close gentleman friend without 'I love you'.
She notes both individuals are averse to a serious relationship, making traditional expressions of love inappropriate.
Miss Manners suggests saying 'I love spending time with you' and humorously cautions against sneezing or coughing between the words.
The inquiry highlights the challenge of navigating affectionate language in non-serious relationships.

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Story summary

Miss Manners (the etiquette columnist) addresses a widow seeking advice on expressing affection to a close gentleman friend without 'I love you'.
She notes both individuals are averse to a serious relationship, making traditional expressions of love inappropriate.
Miss Manners suggests saying 'I love spending time with you' and humorously cautions against sneezing or coughing between the words.
The inquiry highlights the challenge of navigating affectionate language in non-serious relationships.