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The Rise of Medieval-Themed Dating Experiences Among Young Women

2/14/2026, 10:14:45 PM

Medieval Times: A New Dating Frontier

Young women are increasingly attending "Medieval Times" events, seeking an alternative to modern dating apps. This immersive dinner theater franchise, established in 1983, features knights competing in staged tournaments while guests enjoy a themed meal. The trend has gained traction following popular culture references, such as Brittany Broski's enthusiastic endorsement of flirting with knights on her podcast, "The Broski Report." The events offer a unique blend of entertainment and romance, where knights engage with the audience, tossing roses and crowning spectators as the ‘Queen of the Tournament.’

Cultural Context: The Dating Recession

The appeal of Medieval Times can be understood against the backdrop of a broader "dating recession" affecting young adults. A study by the Wheatley Institute and the Institute for Family Studies revealed that only one in three eligible young adults aged 22-35 are actively dating, with a significant number reporting minimal dating experiences in the past year. Factors contributing to this trend include a decline in self-confidence and social skills, exacerbated by excessive smartphone use and a lack of in-person social interactions.

Perspectives on the Medieval Appeal

Participants at Medieval Times events express a longing for the chivalrous ideals embodied by knights. Madison Rae, a 28-year-old attendee, articulated a nostalgic desire for the romanticism of fairy tales, contrasting it with the frustrations of contemporary dating. Nikki Sabate, 31, echoed this sentiment, highlighting the emotional satisfaction derived from being noticed by a knight in a lively setting. Psychologists Dr. Shahrzad Jalali and Dr. Courtney Cantrell suggest that the lack of digital profiles and algorithms at these events fosters genuine human connection, appealing to women who desire to feel cherished without compromising their independence.

Criticism of Modern Dating

Critics of modern dating practices argue that the proliferation of dating apps has led to superficial interactions and a sense of burnout among users. The overwhelming number of choices can create anxiety and hinder meaningful connections. As Dr. Jalali noted, the shared experience at Medieval Times allows for focused attention that many find lacking in the digital dating landscape.

Verbatim Quotes

  • “Watching men joust, fight and ride horses makes them hotter,” — Madison Rae, Attendee
  • “There is no profile to curate, no algorithm deciding worth — just a shared moment where attention feels focused and human again," the psychologist said.” — Dr. Shahrzad Jalali, Psychologist

Conclusion: A Shift in Dating Dynamics

As young women turn to medieval-themed events for romance, the trend reflects a deeper cultural shift in dating preferences. The allure of chivalry and the desire for genuine connection stand in stark contrast to the challenges posed by modern dating practices. This phenomenon underscores the need for new avenues of social interaction that prioritize emotional engagement over superficiality.