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Brian Hoyer Seeks Support Following Sister-in-Law's Sudden Death
2/19/2026, 9:54:21 PM
Tragic Loss and Call for Support
Former NFL quarterback Brian Hoyer announced the unexpected death of his sister-in-law, Carissa Rae Hoyer, who passed away at the age of 36 on February 13. In a heartfelt message shared on social media, Hoyer expressed his sorrow, stating, “It is with a heavy heart that I write this. On February 13th, my little brother lost his wife Carissa suddenly and unexpectedly.” Carissa leaves behind her husband, Brett Hoyer, and their four daughters: Josie (10), Lainey (9), Ellie (7), and Hattie (2).
In light of this tragedy, Brian and his brother Matthew have initiated a GoFundMe campaign to support Brett and his daughters. The campaign aims to alleviate the financial burdens associated with Carissa's passing and to provide stability as Brett transitions into single parenthood. As of the latest update, the fund has raised $56,000 towards its $100,000 goal.
The Impact on the Family
The GoFundMe page highlights the challenges Brett faces as he becomes a widowed father. It states, “Our hope is simple. We want Brett to be able to focus on loving his girls, grieving together, and beginning the long process of healing without the constant weight of financial stress.” The campaign emphasizes that while nothing can replace Carissa's presence, the generosity of supporters can help lift some of the burdens during this difficult time.
Official Statements & Responses
Brian Hoyer's plea for assistance underscores the emotional and financial challenges faced by his brother and the children. He stated, “If you can find it in your heart to help us help him and his girls through this unimaginable season, we would be forever grateful.” The family has expressed gratitude for the support received thus far, with a message stating, “We cannot thank you enough for standing with our family. Please continue to keep Brett and the girls in your prayers as they navigate the days ahead.”
Criticism & Opposition
While the response to the fundraising efforts has been largely positive, some individuals have raised concerns about the reliance on crowdfunding for such personal tragedies. Critics argue that systemic support for families in crisis should be more robust, reducing the need for public appeals in times of grief.
Verbatim Quotes
- “It is with a heavy heart that I write this. On February 13th, my little brother lost his wife Carissa suddenly and unexpectedly,” — Brian Hoyer
- “' 'If you can find it in your heart to help us help him and his girls through this unimaginable season, we would be forever grateful.” — Brian Hoyer
- “'While nothing can replace Cari's presence, your generosity is helping lift a burden and provide stability as Brett steps into this new reality of raising four young daughters without their Mother,' read the post.” — GoFundMe Page
The Hoyer family continues to navigate this challenging period, seeking both emotional and financial support from the community as they cope with their loss.
