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Same-Sex Couples Prefer Marriage Over Domestic Partnerships
2/21/2026, 2:14:38 AM
Overview of Research Findings
Recent research published in the *Journal of Marriage and Family* reveals that same-sex couples in the United States overwhelmingly prefer marriage over domestic partnerships when both options are available. This preference underscores the enduring significance of marriage, attributed to its legal benefits, social clarity, and perceived commitment level. The study, conducted by Michael J. Rosenfeld and Alisa Feldman, challenges the notion that marriage is in decline, particularly among same-sex couples who historically faced exclusion from this institution.
Data Sources and Methodology
The researchers utilized two primary data sources for their analysis. The first was an administrative dataset from the California Secretary of State, which included records of domestic partnerships filed from January 2000 to November 2020. The second source was the 2022 “How Couples Meet and Stay Together” survey, which included responses from 92 individuals in same-sex relationships. This survey explicitly asked participants about their preferences for marriage versus domestic partnership and allowed for open-ended responses regarding their choices.
Shift in Preferences Post-Legalization
The analysis of California data indicated a significant behavioral shift following the legalization of same-sex marriage in June 2013. Prior to this, many same-sex couples registered as domestic partners, but after the Supreme Court ruling, new domestic partnership registrations plummeted. In the latter half of 2013, same-sex marriages outnumbered domestic partnerships by a ratio of more than 22 to 1, a trend that continued with a ratio of about 13 to 1 between 2016 and 2018. This suggests that domestic partnerships served primarily as a temporary substitute rather than a preferred option.
Reasons for Preference
The national survey corroborated these findings, with approximately three times as many respondents preferring marriage over domestic partnership. Participants cited practical and legal advantages of marriage, including federal benefits and tax advantages not available through domestic partnerships. Additionally, marriage was viewed as a more socially recognized and committed status, with many respondents describing domestic partnerships as a “marriage-lite” option. A minority of respondents favored domestic partnerships, often due to critiques of traditional marriage, viewing it as laden with historical and religious connotations.
Criticism and Limitations
While the study highlights the resilience of marriage as an institution, it also acknowledges limitations. California's domestic partnership system offers nearly all the rights of marriage, making comparisons with other states challenging. Furthermore, the relatively small sample size in the 2022 survey limits the generalizability of the findings.
Conclusion and Future Implications
The research concludes that marriage remains a robust institution, reinforced by the fight for marriage equality. Rosenfeld noted, “Marriage is a durable and flexible institution that is thousands of years old and is not going away.” Future studies may explore how preferences evolve among younger generations who have grown up in a more accepting environment regarding marriage equality, potentially affecting the perceived distinctions between marriage and other forms of union.
