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Elsie Hewitt Discusses Decision Not to Breastfeed Daughter Scottie Rose
2/26/2026, 6:38:51 AM
Personal Journey and Health Challenges
Elsie Hewitt, a British model and actress, recently shared her decision not to breastfeed her daughter, Scottie Rose Hewitt Davidson, born on December 12, 2025, with comedian Pete Davidson. In an essay for Elle magazine, Hewitt discussed the complexities surrounding her choice, which stemmed from her experiences with stage 4 endometriosis and a challenging pregnancy. She described feeling disconnected from her body due to her chronic condition and the pressures of the modeling industry, stating, “For years, my body has felt like it doesn’t belong to me.”
The Decision-Making Process
Hewitt's decision to formula feed was influenced by her mental health and recovery needs. She expressed that breastfeeding is often viewed as the “gold standard” of infant nutrition, yet she felt that the physical demands of breastfeeding would hinder her postpartum recovery. “I didn’t want to remain her sole lifeline in a way that would further deplete me,” she explained. This perspective was compounded by her experience of developing mastitis shortly after giving birth, which made breastfeeding physically impossible.
Navigating Guilt and Societal Expectations
Hewitt acknowledged the societal stigma surrounding formula feeding, noting the “quiet shame” often associated with it. She emphasized the importance of prioritizing both her well-being and her daughter’s needs, stating, “A nourished baby and a mentally healthy mother can and should coexist.” She reflected on the internal conflict she faced, saying, “I was grieving an experience that I chose not to have,” while also recognizing that her choice was ultimately about what was best for her family.
Support from Family and Partner
Throughout her journey, Hewitt felt fortunate to have the support of her partner, Pete Davidson, and her family, who did not pressure her into breastfeeding. She noted, “My partner didn’t push me in either direction,” and appreciated her mother’s understanding, who emphasized that the decision was entirely hers. This lack of external pressure allowed her to focus on her recovery and her new role as a mother without added stress.
Conclusion: A Call for Understanding
Hewitt concluded her essay with a powerful reminder that mothers should not have to sacrifice their well-being to prove their love. “You do not have to sacrifice your well-being to prove your love,” she stated, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of feeding choices. Her story highlights the importance of recognizing individual circumstances and the need for compassion in discussions surrounding motherhood and infant care.
