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Christina Applegate Reflects on Ditching Brad Pitt for Sebastian Bach at the 1989 MTV VMAs
3/4/2026, 3:37:36 AM
The MTV VMAs Incident
In her memoir, *You with the Sad Eyes*, Christina Applegate recounts a pivotal moment from her teenage years that has since become a notable anecdote in Hollywood history. At the 1989 MTV Video Music Awards, Applegate, then 17 and a rising star from the sitcom *Married... With Children*, brought Brad Pitt, who was 26 at the time, as her date. However, during the event, Applegate became infatuated with Sebastian Bach, the lead singer of the rock band Skid Row, ultimately choosing to leave with him instead of Pitt. Applegate reflects on this decision, stating, "I felt so powerful and sure of myself for once that when the awards show was over, I left with Sebastian Bach, not Brad Pitt."
Aftermath and Regrets
Following the awards show, Applegate quickly regretted her choice after discovering that Bach was in a long-term relationship and had a child. This realization left her feeling disillusioned, and she noted that Pitt was understandably upset, as he was left to drive her mother home after being ditched. The fallout from this incident was significant; Pitt reportedly did not speak to Applegate for many years. She later learned that he had expressed his anger to two of his subsequent girlfriends, who asked her if she was the girl who left him at the VMAs.
Reflections on Forgiveness
Years later, Applegate and Pitt reached a point of understanding regarding the incident. In her memoir, she writes, "Eventually, we agreed that I’d been a kid, and though he deserved much better, it was time to forgive the child who dumped him for the lead singer of Skid Row." Applegate humorously contrasts their current statuses, noting, "Of course, Brad is now THE Brad Pitt, and Sebastian Bach … well, he still has long hair, I guess."
Broader Themes in Applegate's Memoir
Beyond the story of her youthful decision, Applegate's memoir delves into her struggles with body image, perfectionism, and her ongoing battle with multiple sclerosis, which she was diagnosed with in 2021. She candidly discusses the pressures of Hollywood and her feelings of inadequacy despite her public persona as a sex symbol. Applegate's reflections serve as a reminder that success in the entertainment industry does not necessarily equate to personal happiness or self-acceptance.
Conclusion
Christina Applegate's memoir not only revisits a memorable moment from her past but also highlights the complexities of growing up in the spotlight. The story of her choice between Brad Pitt and Sebastian Bach encapsulates the innocence and impulsiveness of youth, while her later reflections reveal a journey toward self-forgiveness and understanding. As Applegate continues to navigate her health challenges, her candidness about her experiences offers a compelling narrative of resilience and personal growth.
