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Teaching Kids Resilience: Balancing Expectations and Disappointment

3/10/2026

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A parent seeks advice from Carolyn Hax on how to teach their child to cope with disappointment, in a letter dated February 24, 2012.
The parent reflects on their own upbringing, where they were taught to manage expectations to avoid heartbreak.
They question whether this approach is pessimistic or simply realistic.

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Story summary

A parent seeks advice from Carolyn Hax on how to teach their child to cope with disappointment, in a letter dated February 24, 2012.
The parent reflects on their own upbringing, where they were taught to manage expectations to avoid heartbreak.
They question whether this approach is pessimistic or simply realistic.