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IDF Withdraws Controversial Passover Song Amid Gender Criticism
4/11/2026, 9:06:13 PM
Controversial Song and Its Removal
The Israel Defense Forces (IDF) recently removed a music video for a Passover song titled "Notnim Yadayim" ("Lending Hands") after it faced backlash for its portrayal of women. Critics argued that the song, which was included in the IDF Rabbinate's Passover Haggadah, reinforced traditional gender roles by depicting women primarily in domestic roles while men served in combat. The song, written by Racheli Moshkovitz, features lyrics such as “I load a cannon, you load groceries” and “I give out orders, you give out hugs,” which many interpreted as diminishing the contributions of women in the military.
Background of the Controversy
The uproar over the song coincided with criticism directed at a letter from Naomi Zini, the spouse of Shin Bet chief David Zini, which addressed “the wives of security personnel.” This letter was perceived as reinforcing outdated gender stereotypes, particularly given that nearly half of Shin Bet's personnel are women. The letter praised the role of women in supporting the home front but was criticized for excluding non-married partners and same-sex couples, as well as for its framing that overlooked the contributions of women in security roles.
Responses from Activists and Officials
Secularist and feminist activists, including the Secular Forum and MK Yorai Lahav Hertzanu from the Yesh Atid party, condemned both the song and Zini's letter. Hertzanu described the song's lyrics as “a medley of contempt, dismissal and erasure of women and LGBTQ,” emphasizing that it disrespected the service of many women in the IDF. Moran Zer Katzenstein, leader of the Bonot Alternativa women’s protest movement, expressed approval of the IDF's decision to remove the video, urging the military to clarify that such values do not represent its stance.
Gender Dynamics in the IDF
Despite the controversy, the IDF has seen an increase in the number of women serving in combat roles, which now exceeds 20% of its fighting force. However, the military has also implemented gender-segregated frameworks to accommodate ultra-Orthodox soldiers, reflecting ongoing tensions regarding gender equality within the armed forces. The recent conservative campaign advocating for the removal of women from the army further complicates the landscape of gender roles in Israeli military service.
Official Statements and Reactions
The IDF stated that the song was created by a private individual and did not adhere to official guidelines for inclusion in the Haggadah. The military emphasized its commitment to maintaining a respectful service environment for all soldiers. In response to the backlash, a gender equality commissioner from Shin Bet criticized Zini's letter for its exclusionary framing, acknowledging the intent to support but noting that the delivery caused hurt to many.
Conflicting Reports and Gaps
While the IDF and Shin Bet have acknowledged the criticisms, the specific impact of these incidents on gender dynamics within the military remains unclear. The ongoing debate highlights a broader societal struggle regarding the roles of women in Israel, especially in contexts traditionally dominated by men.
Verbatim Quotes
- “I load a cannon, you load groceries” — Racheli Moshkovitz, Songwriter
- “what the place of women is in a halacha state run by the Hardal,” — Secular Forum Statement
- “a medley of contempt, dismissal and erasure of women and LGBTQ” — MK Yorai Lahav Hertzanu
- “women in 2026 are much more than joy and running the household.” — Shin Bet Gender Equality Commissioner
