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Ray J Claims Sexual Encounters with Over 12,500 Women, Prompting Skepticism

4/29/2026, 1:20:08 PM

Core Claim: Ray J's Reported Sexual Count

During the April 24 episode of the Funky Friday podcast, Ray J asserted that he has engaged in sexual activity with 12,500 different women, expanding on an earlier figure of 10,000.

Background & Context

Ray J, the “Sexy Can I” singer, has previously dated public figures such as Kim Kardashian, Olivia Alvarez, and Brittany Pena. The discussion of his sexual history occurred shortly after he spoke publicly about a near-fatal heart condition.

Key Figures & Groups

  • Ray J – Singer and podcast guest making the claim.
  • Cam Newton – Host of Funky Friday, who questioned the plausibility of the numbers.
  • Funky Friday podcast – Platform for the interview.
  • Booby Trap club – Venue where Ray J reportedly hosted a celebration of reaching five-digit figures.

Data & Statistics

  • Initial count mentioned: 10,000 women.
  • Updated count: 12,500 women.
  • Estimated 3,500 occasions involving three or more partners simultaneously.
  • Party attendance: 400–500 women, according to Ray J.
  • Cam Newton’s calculation: roughly 1.5 women per day over a 30-year span.

Official Statements & Responses

Ray J asserted that touring schedules allowed five to ten encounters per day and emphasized that he was not capping. He also noted a large party at Booby Trap club celebrating the milestone. Cam Newton responded by highlighting the mathematical inconsistency, suggesting the claimed total would require an average of just over one-and-a-half partners per day for three decades.

Criticism & Opposition

Cam Newton’s skepticism formed the primary opposition, focusing on the arithmetic gap between Ray J’s claim and realistic daily averages. He framed the discussion as a matter of plausibility rather than personal judgment.

Conflicting Reports & Gaps

The article presents two divergent calculations: Ray J’s self-reported total of 12,500 versus Cam Newton’s derived average of 1.5 per day. No independent verification or third-party data is provided, leaving the true figure unsubstantiated.

Why It Matters

The claim has generated widespread media attention, reflecting broader public interest in celebrity sexual disclosures and prompting debate over the credibility of self-reported personal statistics.

Verbatim Quotes

  • “These are 10,000 different people,” — Ray J, Singer
  • “It's like at [12,500] now.” — Ray J, Singer
  • “The math is different because when we're on tour, we're thinking five to 10 a day,” — Ray J, Singer
  • “I'm not capping.” — Ray J, Singer
  • “I had about 400 or 500 girls that I f--ked with came through, supported,” — Ray J, Singer
  • “sleeping with a little over one-and-a-half women a day for 30 years.” — Cam Newton, Host

What’s Next

No further clarification from Ray J or his representatives has been announced, and no additional interviews on the topic are scheduled at the time of reporting.