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Sex Toys, Younger Partners and Non-Monogamy Linked to Milder Menopause Symptoms
5/21/2026, 4:05:05 AM
Study Overview
A peer-reviewed article in *Sexual and Relationship Therapy* reports that frequent orgasms—especially via masturbation with sex toys—correlate with reduced menopausal symptom severity. Participants in age-gap relationships (partners >= 7 years younger) or consensual non-monogamous (CNM) arrangements reported fewer physical and emotional complaints. Researchers surveyed 150 peri- and post-menopausal individuals online.
Background & Context
Menopause begins after twelve months without menstruation and often brings night sweats, sleep disruption, vaginal dryness and mood changes. Prior literature has largely framed sexual activity as declining with age, leaving limited evidence on whether sexual pleasure can mitigate these symptoms.
Researchers & Sample
The study was led by Samantha Banbury, professor at London Metropolitan University, with co-authors Beata Pacan, Christine Andrew and Chris Chandler. Most participants were cisgender women; a minority were transgender men or nonbinary. While most dated partners of similar age, a smaller group had partners at least seven years younger, and some reported CNM relationships.
Main Findings
Statistical analysis showed a direct link between orgasm frequency and overall symptom reduction. Sex-toy use mediated this effect, accounting for lower reports of fatigue, sleep disturbance, anxiety, sadness and crying, as well as reduced urinary and genital discomfort. Participants with younger partners reported higher sexual arousal and fewer physical symptoms, while those in CNM relationships reported more orgasms and fewer menopausal complaints than monogamous peers.
Why It Matters
The results suggest that sexual pleasure, especially via sex toys, may serve as an adjunct to biopsychosocial menopause treatments. They also highlight the need for inclusive sex-toy designs for diverse bodies, including people with disabilities, transgender men and those who have undergone hysterectomy.
Official Statements & Responses
Banbury stressed that self-pleasure should complement medical supervision and biopsychosocial care. She noted menopause does not end sexual life and that relationship diversity can affect well-being. The authors emphasized the correlational design, stating causality cannot be inferred and calling for larger, culturally diverse samples.
Criticism & Gaps
The authors identified a modest sample size, limited ethnic and cultural representation, reliance on self-report measures and a correlational design that precludes causal conclusions. Consequently, the generalizability of findings across cultures and socioeconomic groups remains uncertain.
Verbatim Quotes
- “Little research focuses on menopause and sex other than the constant reminder that sex diminishes with age,” — Samantha Banbury, London Met
- “The use of sex toys and the reduction of menopausal symptoms were very interesting,” — Samantha Banbury, London Met
- “I love exploratory research rather than a prescriptive set of hypotheses which stifles creativity,” — Samantha Banbury, London Met
- “Sexual life doesn’t end with menopause,” — Samantha Banbury, London Met
What’s Next
The team plans to explore immersive virtual reality, fractal mindfulness and ergonomic sex-toy designs as enhancers of menopausal well-being. Future work will also examine age-gap dynamics in same-sex couples and expand sample diversity for better generalizability.
