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Tragic Suicide at a Grave Tied to the Nova Festival Massacre

8/3/2026, 11:29:22 AM

Core Event

Bar Asraf, a 30-year-old resident of Sha’arei Tikva, died by suicide after shooting himself at the gravesite of his former girlfriend, Liron Barda. The incident occurred on a Saturday evening in the West Bank cemetery of Elkana. Emergency responders, including Magen David Adom, were unable to revive him; he was found with a gunshot wound to the chest and a firearm lying nearby.

Background & Context

On October 7 2023, Hamas militants attacked the Nova music festival near the Gaza Strip, killing 378 attendees, according to the *Times of Israel*. Liron Barda, then 26, worked as the festival’s bar manager. Despite pleas from friends and family to flee, she remained on site to administer first aid to the wounded and was murdered during the assault.

Bar Asraf and Barda had been close since childhood, describing each other as “soulmates.” After her death, Asraf maintained regular contact with Barda’s family, visited her grave frequently, and kept a tattoo in her memory. Friends reported that he struggled to cope with her loss for years, describing periods of profound loneliness and “a moment of madness” when he felt isolated while others celebrated with families.

Official Statements & Responses

The Sha’ar Shomron Local Council issued a condolence message, expressing a “warm hug” to the Asraf family and acknowledging the depth of their pain.

Verbatim Quotes

  • “He has a tattoo of her; she was a part of his soul,” — Lihi
  • “On that day, he started driving toward Re'im to save her, until he realised there was no one left to save and they turned him back halfway,” — Lihi

What It Highlights

The suicide illustrates the lingering psychological toll of the October 7 massacre on individuals connected to victims. His mother, Bracha, described him as “a good person, helped everyone” and emphasized the couple’s lifelong bond.

Mental-health advocates point to this case alongside reports that nearly 50 Nova-festival survivors died by suicide within six months after the attack, highlighting a broader pattern of enduring distress among those linked to the tragedy.

What's Next

SafeHeart and other support organizations continue to call for expanded mental-health resources for families of October 7 victims. No specific future initiatives were detailed in the available reports.