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Vincent Pastore’s Funeral Celebrates a Life of Generosity and Community
8/7/2026, 8:56:30 AM
Core Event
On Thursday, August 6, 2026, more than 100 mourners gathered at Holy Family Church in New Rochelle for the funeral of Vincent Pastore, the 80-year-old actor best known for playing Salvatore “Big Pussy” Bonpensiero on HBO’s *The Sopranos*. Pastore’s casket was draped with an American flag and carried by six pallbearers, including longtime friend and *Sopranos* co-star Steve Van Zandt, who also performed as a guitarist for Bruce Springsteen’s E Street Band.
Background & Context
Before his acting breakthrough in his 40s, Pastore owned Westchester nightlife venues such as The Crazy Horse bar and later served in the U.S. Navy from 1964 to 1967 before attending Pace University on the GI Bill. His film credits include *Goodfellas* and *Carlito’s Way*. In his later years he formed a band, surprising friends with his willingness to start a musical project at age 60.
Key Figures & Groups
- Vincent Pastore – Actor, former Navy serviceman, bar owner, and late-life musician.
- Renee Pastore – Daughter, who delivered the eulogy and highlighted her father’s habit of giving cash tips and shaking hands with police officers.
- Steve Van Zandt – *Sopranos* co-star and E Street Band guitarist; served as a pallbearer and recalled a phone call with Pastore two days before his death.
- Maureen Van Zandt – Steve’s wife; co-founder of a theater company with Pastore.
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Why It Matters
Renee Pastore used the tribute to urge friends and family to continue her father’s practice of spontaneous generosity—tipping waitstaff in cash, greeting bus drivers, police officers, and coffee-shop staff with kindness. She framed these gestures as a living memorial to Pastore’s “big heart” and his belief that sharing good fortune was a way to honor the “cards he was dealt.” The funeral thus served not only as a farewell but also as a call to embody the actor’s community-focused spirit.
