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Roland Orzabal Opens Up About His Late Wife’s Illness, an Affair, and a New Family
8/9/2026, 8:46:07 PM
Marriage to Caroline Johnston and Her Decline
Roland Orzabal married Caroline Johnston in Bath, England, in 1982. The couple raised two sons and remained together for 35 years. By the mid-1990s their relationship was strained, and they pursued counseling while Orzabal’s touring schedule kept him away for long periods. In the late 2000s the marriage settled into a routine marked by nightly drinking. Caroline’s health deteriorated; she attributed symptoms to menopause, but doctors eventually identified chronic alcohol abuse. Orzabal recalled watching her “slowly melt away,” noting secret vodka bottles, jaundiced skin, seizures, hospitalizations, and “bizarre ideation.” He admitted that, in hindsight, he wondered whether he should have left earlier.
Emerging Relationship with Emily Rath
In October 2016, while performing at Red Rocks in Colorado, Orzabal met writer-photographer Emily Rath, then 30, while he was 55. He described an immediate, unexpected reaction, saying “That’s my wife.” He framed the moment as a “crossroads, a tipping point” that forced him to choose between staying with his ailing spouse or pursuing a new life.
After Caroline’s Death and Later Life
Caroline died in 2017 at age 54 after a prolonged battle with alcohol-related illness. He entered the InnerBalance rehabilitation center in Colorado in 2019 for Ambien addiction and began to “forgive himself.” Orzabal and Rath married in 2020 and welcomed a daughter, Eula, in 2025. He described Rath as “an amazing support system” and expressed hope that Caroline would understand his choices.
Verbatim Quotes
- “I was at a crossroads, a tipping point, if you like,” — Roland Orzabal
- “How much of a carer are you? Is that your natural bent?” — Roland Orzabal
- “I think the problem was that, one minute, she’d be fine,” — Roland Orzabal
- “Emily has been an amazing support system for me,” — Roland Orzabal
- “We would have a decent conversation. And then the next minute. She was doolally — not making sense, demented.” — Roland Orzabal
