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Substitute Teacher Adopts Authority Practices, Gains Respect
8/18/2026
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Story summary
- A 48-year-old substitute teacher in New York City adopted four classroom practices to assert authority.
- She says students now give her respect and trust rather than mere likability.
- At age 50 and in perimenopause, she reports being more socially assertive and modeling boundary-setting for her daughter.
- She notes that women who reject mistreatment often face gaslighting, retaliation, or violence in a sexist culture.
